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Tig_Welder_1 #1 Posted Nov 03 2018 - 23:39

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I know this wont go anywhere, however, this game is full of people with some serious hatred of losing. I get it, I'm not the best but why the harassment after a game ends about being a shi**er and you suck and all that. Seriously a turn off to this game.

 

Oh well, so how do you all act to this kind of personalities? 



_Tsavo_ #2 Posted Nov 03 2018 - 23:41

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Mig welders, unite!   Down with them Tig welders!  

 

Just kidding.   

 

 

It's a competitive PvP, tempers do rise when things go wrong.   Don't let it bother you. 



Insanefriend #3 Posted Nov 03 2018 - 23:41

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I tell them to learn to respect other players.

Dogsoldier6 #4 Posted Nov 03 2018 - 23:44

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First off I hardly ever run into this problem, in this game. Other FPS games I have played the player base was actually more toxic. Which is one reason I play this one.

 

From your battle count I can see you are fairly new to the game, and playing in the lower tiers. The few times I even venture below tier 6, now, I have noticed it is populated by more whiners then the higher tiers.

 

From the start of playing this game I laugh and ignore them. If they are that immature to let a pastime/game get them all upset then THEY need a life adjustment not you.

 

Good hunting.

 



Tig_Welder_1 #5 Posted Nov 03 2018 - 23:44

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View Post_Tsavo_, on Nov 03 2018 - 16:41, said:

Mig welders, unite!   Down with them Tig welders!  

 

 

LOL, no, the world dont need more Mig welders lol


Edited by Tig_Welder_1, Nov 03 2018 - 23:45.


_1204_ #6 Posted Nov 03 2018 - 23:46

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Just ignore them. If they wanna be a fool and get mad at internet people... jokes on them.

 

If you really cant stand it, turn off chat



The_Iron_Bullet #7 Posted Nov 04 2018 - 00:28

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Phffff, who needs MIG when you have oxy-acetylene.

Mojo_Riesing #8 Posted Nov 04 2018 - 00:40

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I think the rate of toxic behavior has been reduced. Not sure if that's a result of removing cross team chat or increased activity by WG staff when behavior is reported.

 



Ironbutt2015 #9 Posted Nov 04 2018 - 00:45

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Do not let any cowardly internet blowhards get to you.  Play and have fun.

 

You can turn off some of the various chat/message options and never hear from them. 

 

I leave in game messaging on to see advice/warnings or send advice/warnings but that is about it.



NutrientibusMeaGallus #10 Posted Nov 04 2018 - 00:52

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I removed everyone off my blacklist like a week ago..... Already 3 people on it as of tonight, and I've only played really on like 2 of those days.... 

 

Report toxic players, eventually they disappear for good... That's why I clean out my blacklist once a year. Most if not all of them are inactive players or permabanned by the time a year is up. 



Lesser_Spotted_Panzer #11 Posted Nov 04 2018 - 01:07

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View Post_Tsavo_, on Nov 03 2018 - 17:41, said:

Mig welders, unite!   Down with them Tig welders!

 

Just kidding.  

 

 

It's a competitive PvP, tempers do rise when things go wrong.   Don't let it bother you.

 

^This coming from the guy who had a Betamax.

Lesser_Spotted_Panzer #12 Posted Nov 04 2018 - 01:11

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View PostTig_Welder_1, on Nov 03 2018 - 17:39, said:

I know this wont go anywhere, however, this game is full of people with some serious hatred of losing. I get it, I'm not the best but why the harassment after a game ends about being a shi**er and you suck and all that. Seriously a turn off to this game.

 

Oh well, so how do you all act to this kind of personalities?

 

Firstly hit the report button. Secondly add them to your blacklist. Thirdly realize that there are some real jerks around. Ignore them and move on. Hopefully one day they will realize that they are making the world a less pleasant place to live, and they have to live in it too.

Thunder_Storm_713 #13 Posted Nov 04 2018 - 01:14

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View PostInsanefriend, on Nov 04 2018 - 10:41, said:

I tell them to learn to respect other players.

 

​That's sure to work

Captain_Rownd #14 Posted Nov 04 2018 - 01:15

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View PostTig_Welder_1, on Nov 03 2018 - 12:39, said:

I know this wont go anywhere, however, this game is full of people with some serious hatred of losing. I get it, I'm not the best but why the harassment after a game ends about being a shi**er and you suck and all that. Seriously a turn off to this game.

 

Oh well, so how do you all act to this kind of personalities? 

 

They want attention.  Ignore them. This game has the highest frustration level and most angry nasty userbase I've ever encountered. 

dunniteowl #15 Posted Nov 04 2018 - 01:24

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There is no-one on my blacklist.  I have received maybe a dozen chat responses from players AFTER the match that were unkind.  The ones that come off at me usually get a fairly laughingly delivered, NON-STOP series of posts to the effect of:

 

Does this mean you won't be my friend? 

Am I really that bad, I have more damage than you.
Why So Mad?

Are you going to keep talking to me?

I could really use a friend.

 

and on and on until they leave me alone.  I don't get mad about it, why?  I don't know them, they don't know me.

 

This is also why I don't have anyone on my blacklist.  I used it ONE TIME in the time I have played.  I had to do it for one guy who just wouldn't stop and was, quite honestly, very ugly, words-wise.  Creatively so, but not worth the time to keep at it.  After an hour I took that person off my blacklist as well.

 

Those folks that feel the need to be mean and abusive to other players are very honestly a waste of your time and attention beyond simple things as I do.  Beyond that, no-one is going to spend that much time on you -- they really do just want to play some more.  Maybe they have to get their frustration on some random stranger before they can move on, I don't know.

 

I never send after battle messages that are mean.  I will only send messages such as:

Awesome game, man.

Hey, you really carried the game that time, Wing Up! (I am an owl, after all)

 

Basically I will congratulate, never berate or remonstrate.  You can, as another poster said, ask them to respect others.  I find that it is easier to just practice that.  All I can control is me.  

 

Hang in there and just learn to not take it personally -- they DON'T KNOW you, so taking it personally is sort of silly.

 

 

GL, HF & HSYBF!

 

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Rocker_Box #16 Posted Nov 04 2018 - 02:18

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View Postdunniteowl, on Nov 04 2018 - 01:24, said:

There is no-one on my blacklist.

 

Your a better man then I dunniteowl!  I have only a handful on my blacklist, tker's and griefers. 

 

 It used to be, when one popped up on the enemy team.  I might flex to the other flank, just to give them an early trip to the garage.  Now that I play artillery now and then, let's just say it's extra spicy good to make it rain for them! At least when the team doesn't have a more pressing target I should deal with first.  



Coke_a_Cola #17 Posted Nov 04 2018 - 03:47

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Tig

Its like when you catch a new guy on your job trying to use a 7018 for a penetration run instead of a 6010.. Slap the stinger out of his hand and give'm a grinder, then  smile as ya move on. 



Karmadharma #18 Posted Nov 04 2018 - 06:26

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It's the rude and the would-be bullies that get my goat. I try not to react when they push me out of position or even into fire, but it is darned hard not to get worked up. I report as many as possible for unsportsmanlike conduct, don't know what comes of it but at least it is something. Then there are the psychos that just pick someone to make miserable for the rest of the match. Ugh.

Tig_Welder_1 #19 Posted Nov 04 2018 - 15:09

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View PostCoke_a_Cola, on Nov 03 2018 - 20:47, said:

Tig

Its like when you catch a new guy on your job trying to use a 7018 for a penetration run instead of a 6010.. Slap the stinger out of his hand and give'm a grinder, then  smile as ya move on. 

 

lmbo, well said man

Kaeto1 #20 Posted Nov 05 2018 - 17:05

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Carbon Arc welding for the win !   Down with MIG, TIG, and Oxygen-Acetylene!

 

I've had some other players tell me to quit in the harshest and most vulgar terms because I'm not at the level of a professional player.  But the I've also been told to my face that because I'm disabled and live on disability payments that my house should be taken away from me to be given to a worker and that I should go starve to death. 

 

Actually I Don't even know how to access my stats. like they seem to be able to.






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